April 11

0 comments

5 Best Places to Meet Women Online (2020)

By Colette Murphy

April 11, 2020


There was a time when singles didn’t have the option to meet people online, and actually had to go out and do things to find someone. But things have changed since the days of personal ads, and technology has made it easier than ever to meet a partner. And, when you know which sites fit your profile and expectations the best, you could actually end up finding the love of your life after a few swipes. That’s why our team has compiled this list of the five best places to meet women online.

#1 Place to Meet Women Online - eHarmony

Important points:

  • 30 million US members (global 4 million visits per month)
  • eHarmoney accounts for 2% of marriages in the US
  • Comes with an app
  • Millions of members worldwide
  • profiles are detailed, verified with min 3 photos
  • Data says majority of members are well educated and stable

When people think about online dating sites, they often automatically think about hookups, but eHarmony is different. According to recent data, the site accounts for about 4% of all US marriages, which is impressive. This is because the site was made specifically for people who have marriage in mind. This is also a site we would recommend to Christians. As a matter of fact, the site was co-created by a theologian, and a large portion of the people on the site identify as Christian.

One of the best things about eHarmony is that the platform does virtually all the work for you. They will first have you go through their 29 Dimensions of Compatibility test. Once it’s completed, you won’t have to go through profiles to find potential partners. The site will automatically look for people they think would be a good match for you and send you notifications every time they have a recommendation. Their compatibility ratings system will automatically connect you with people who share similar interests and lifestyles.

This is without a doubt the best site for people looking for something serious, and it has a long track record to back it. It’s also a great site if faith is a deal breaker for you and you’re looking for people who are on the same wavelength as you. It's worth noting eHarmony ranked #1 in our best dating apps list.

Pros

  • A website with a proven track record
  • Great for people who want a serious relationship instead of a hookup
  • A sophisticate matching model that actually works
  • Saves you the time and effort of sifting through hundreds of different profiles

Cons

  • No option for users to search profiles on their own
  • Free accounts cannot contact premium users

#2 Place to Find Women Online - Elitesingles.com

Important points:

  • Global 2 million visits per month
  • Over 80% of members have college degrees
  • Comes with an app
  • 44% male - 56% female
  • 30+ is the recommended age group
  • Long questionnaire at sign up (20 mins) but helps create a better matching experience

If you have a preference for smarter goal oriented women, then Elites Singles definitely deserves a try. As a matter of fact, over 80% of all people on the site have at least a university or college degree, and most of the site’s members are women. It’s also one of the fastest growing online sites for singles. The site attracts over 165,000 new members every month, so you’ll always get the chance to meet new people.

Another great thing about Elite Singles is the free options. The site won’t charge you for things like setting up your profile, getting a personality statement, or uploading photos to your profile. You also won’t be charged for browsing the site, making a favorite’s list, editing your profile, or sending virtual smiles. This is the best site if you’re looking for something serious with someone who’s as driven and ambitious as you.

Pricing: Starts free, if you want to upgrade for the extra features there are 3 packages 12, 6 and 3 months. If you sign up for 12 months its $31.95/month, for the 6 month package its $44.95/month and for the 3 month package its $57.95 per month.

Pros

  • Free membership option is highly usable
  • Subscriptions are reasonably priced
  • In-depth personality tests improve the quality of matches
  • Excellent safety and privacy features
  • Customer Care Team on-call 24/7
  • App is simple and intuitive to use
  • Includes an advice blog that is useful

Cons

  • Only for serious relationships
  • The signup process takes a long time
  • You need a premium subscription for unlimited communication

#3 Place to Meet Women For Hook Up - Adult Friend Finder

Important points:

  • Over 80 million members worldwide
  • An adult casual dating and hookup site for all kinds of set-up
  • Has a variety of ways to get in contact with other users
  • Half of the members' population are between 25-44 years old
  • iPhone and Android App available
  • Needs email verification upon signing up

This is one of the largest casual dating sites in the world. AFF started in the US but has evolved to have 80 million members all over the world. Their primary focus is to help members find sexual partners through their platform. AFF is open to all sorts of arrangements, couple share, polygamy and much more so there is a lot on offer if that floats your boat. Given the nature of the site it is not the sort of platform you would go to in search of a serious relationship, however if you are scouting for something casual and fun then maybe AFF is for you. It has a quick 5 minute sign up process that is free initially but there is an option to go premium later on. Once you have completed registration and set your sexual preferences you are sent to the activities page where you can start to see profiles. As you would imagine the profiles are focused on sexual and mature content so be warned.

Pros

  • Established platform with a good reputation
  • Large user base
  • Plenty of options for finding other users looking for the same thing
  • Lots of ways for users to express themselves and add personality to their profiles

Cons

  • Matching-system isn’t as advanced as others
  • There are paid-extras on top of paid-membership packages

#4 Place to Find Women Online - Match.com

Important points:

  • Over 8 million premium members worldwide (4 million from USA)
  • Over 91% of members have attended college
  • Comes with a free app
  • 45% male - 55% female
  • 31% are Millennials (ages 24-38), 36% are Gen X (ages 39-53) and 28% are Boomers (ages 54-74)
  • 3 million daily logins

Match is one of the most popular online dating sites and counts over 30 million members - 51% of them being women. This is hands down the best website if you’re looking for a date, hookup, or a serious long term relationship.

What really sets Match apart is its algorithm system. The algorithm uses personal data to find your perfect match based on things like age, location, education, hobbies, appearance, lifestyle, hobbies, and sexual orientation.

Another thing that makes Match a great option is that you can join for free. Their free membership option includes unlimited browsing, profile creation, and a variety of different tools you can use for flirting (e.g., Winks, Likes, limited messaging, and a favorite’s list). However, if you enjoy their free option, we strongly suggest you consider going for the 3 month, 6 month, or 12 month package to get full access to the site.

Pros

  • Aimed at people looking for a serious relationship
  • Large user base
  • Well-established reputation

Cons

  • Requires a membership to communicate with other users
  • The website doesn’t tell you if you are messaging a free user or not. If you re, they can’t reply, even if you have paid.
  • The company’s attempts at innovation don’t always go to plan.

#5 Place to Find Women Online - Tinder

Important points:

  • More commonly used for hookups and casual relationships than those looking for serious long-term relationships and marriage
  • Easy to use and set up; you can sign up with email or import your profile information from Facebook
  • There are no features like personality quizzes to find more compatible matches compared to other dating sites
  • Free and premium features are available
  • You cannot send messages to users who do not swipe right on your profile
  • You can connect to other apps like Spotify and Snapchat

These days, when most people think of online dating, they immediately think of Tinder. The phrase ‘swipe right’ has entered the modern lexicon, meaning to approve of or like something while the company’s name has almost become a byword for online dating in general. Tinder boasts an accordingly enormous user base, which is the primary reason that we have included it on this list. It also offers a desktop application, albeit a relatively rarely used one, alongside the mobile app.

Unfortunately, Tinder’s problems begin where its userbase ends. Once you get past the sheer number of active accounts on Tinder and dig a little deeper, the results are disappointing, to say the least. For one thing, a not-insignificant portion of those users seems to be bot accounts. These are accounts that will automatically like every user they are presented with and then instantly spam them with chat messages when they match.

There are also human users on the platform doing the same thing, looking to match with other people in order to sell them off-site services. Anyone who can set up a Facebook account can set up a Tinder account, making it a very weak measure for trying to ensure only legitimate users make it on to the site.

Some people still have luck on Tinder, but it has become a magnet for all the worst aspects of online dating and has done little to curb the spread of their influence throughout the service.

Pros

  • A large userbase

Cons

  • It has devolved into a marketplace for people selling photos of themselves.
  • The ratio of legitimate users to fake users is way off.
  • Takes far too long to find genuine users and make connections
  • Encourages users to swipe based on looks instead of personality, thereby reducing the quality of matches.

FAQs for meeting women online

Where can I meet women online for free?

Almost all dating platforms are free to sign up and use and almost all of them have a paid version for extra features. During my research for my article on where to meet women online I found the hyper popular apps were filled full of time wasters, cat fishers and spam bots.

How do I meet a nice woman?

Well this is a super broad question, so my answer will have to be broad too, first of all clubs are a great place, join your local dance,  yoga, squash or any other club and you will find tiny communities waiting for you. Historically bars have done well for couples but the number of couples meeting there is reducing every year. If that's not your cup of tea then I encourage you to try to meet women online.

How can I meet girls online?

First of all you need to choose the best platform that aligns with what you're looking for. Lucky for you I wrote a guide on the best websites and apps for meeting women online.

Find out who wrote the article?

Want to know more about the team behind this community?

Colette Murphy

About the author

Hi, my name is Collette, I was born, raised in New York where i still currently live. I am currently in my mid thirties and after changed career multiple times and struggling to find a passion I decided to leave the career based live behind and start an online community for like minded people. This community is a safe place for women and like minded men who want to steer clear of misogyny, sexism, degrading comments and racism. I hope you enjoy your stay.

{"email":"Email address invalid","url":"Website address invalid","required":"Required field missing"}

You might also like

>